What is a Dakini?
“Melissa is an inspiration to me as a woman, a heroic representation of the full spectrum of feminine radiance and goddess energy.” – Amy McCarrel, Founder of Women’s Tent
Originating in Ancient Tibet, the word “dakini” means “female skydancer” or “one who revels in space.” This was an honorary title given to women who had the rare ability to help people instantly connect to spirit through their embodiment of divine feminine energy. In the presence of a dakini, people would become spontaneously “awakened” and set free of the masks and pretenses that disempowered them. This initiation would enable them to connect with states of divine union and bliss that they had always longed to experience.

Modern day dakinis exist, but they are few and far between. Training to become a dakini involves years, and even lifetimes, of rigorous spiritual practice and service. This training cannot be achieved solely by attending workshops or reading books. A dakini must learn, through life’s challenges and tests, how to embrace divine feminine energy without resistance.
Unfortunately, some people use the term “dakini” to describe themselves without having this training and experience, and are not able to transmit the energy that authentic dakinis are known for. That’s why it is important to discern carefully when choosing a practitioner. A true dakini does not teach tantric practices indiscriminately because she understands the potential danger of engaging in them without the necessary physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual preparation. She takes time to explore and heal any relationship or sexual challenges before introducing you to tantric practices.
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